Doing it yourself

Arranging a funeral for a loved one is a difficult and emotional process. Some families in the UK choose to take control of the process by arranging a DIY funeral.

In this resource, DIY is considered to be leaving out the principle and associated services of a funeral director.

Here are some tips for arranging a DIY funeral in the UK:

  1. Familiarize yourself with the legal requirements: It’s important to understand the legal requirements for funerals in the UK, such as registering the death, obtaining a death certificate, and arranging the disposal of the body.
  2. Decide on a venue: Decide on a location for the funeral ceremony, whether it be at home, in a park, or in another meaningful location.
  3. Choose a coffin: Select a suitable coffin or casket that reflects your loved one’s personality and beliefs. You can purchase a plain wooden coffin or opt for a more environmentally friendly option, such as a biodegradable coffin.
  4. Arrange transportation: Arrange for the transportation of the body from the place of death to the funeral venue. The body can be transported in a car or van which would need to be big enough for a coffin or shroud suitably. You don’t need a special licence for this but it may be worth notifying the local police of your intentions.
  5. Plan the ceremony: Plan the funeral ceremony, including music, readings, and eulogies. You may also choose to include personal touches, such as flowers, candles, or photographs.
  6. Arrange for the disposal of the body: Decide on the method of disposal of the body, whether it be cremation or burial. You will need to arrange this directly with a crematorium or cemetery.
  7. Seek support: Organizing a DIY funeral can be a challenging process, and it’s important to seek support from friends and family. They can help with tasks such as transportation, setting up the venue, and preparing refreshments for after the ceremony.

Arranging a DIY funeral is a unique way to say goodbye to a loved one and ensure that their farewell is meaningful and personal. With careful planning and support from friends and family, you can create a farewell that truly celebrates your loved one’s life and reflects their unique spirit.